Thursday, December 27, 2007

I lost my friend today.

This just sucks. A few days ago I told you about my friend Mark Sullivan. He died today.

Mark had a congenital condition that eventually compromised his heart to the point he needed a transplant. His condition deteriorated so rapidly he went from his happy-go-lucky self 10 days ago to his heart finally giving out at 9am today. Mark was 40 years old.

Mark had his spleen removed a few days after birth leaving a decent sized scar on his torso. He was so unassuming and always deflected attention away from what we would later learn was his knowing any day could be the day. Once, a girl he was seeing asked me about Mark getting bit by a shark. I asked her what the hell she was talking about, she said "I saw the scar on his abdomen and I asked him what happened, he said he got bit by a shark". Knowing Mark he was laughing the whole time.

I've known Mark for 15 years and I was fortunate to be his roommate in Raleigh for 6 months. Mark was a good looking guy, played guitar, wrote songs, and was a genuinely great human being. Needless to say the ladies loved him. But it wasn't some skank-ho fest at our place, there were no strippers, no dumb-asses, no body shots. Marine Biologists and aspiring Psychologists and such. It was one of the best times I ever had, and I'm pretty sure it was for Mark as well.

I moved back to Denver, Mark eventually moved on...first to Jacksonville at the legendary WAPE. I hooked him up with John Peake who brought him to the even more legendary KRBE, Houston. Mark was big time. He would go on to Minneapolis, Tucson, even Mankato Minnesota where he thought he wanted to be a Program Director. Mark last radio days were spent in Chicago at Love FM, within earshot of his hometown.

3 months ago they told Mark he would need a heart and liver transplant by the end of the year. He almost made it, we all thought he would. We all just took the cue from his optimism, he thought it was no big deal. When it was all said and done he would just tell people he got bit by another shark. That was Mark.

Donate your organs if you're not set up to do so already. And I hope somebody like Mark will cross your path, you'll be a much better person because of it. Trust me.

Hear Mark's music on his MySpace page: http://www.myspace.com/marksullymusic

4 comments:

  1. I went to grade school and high school with Mark. What an all around nice guy. I loved that he would tell people that he got bit by a shark, too. This is very sad. I honestly didn't realize the seriousness of his condition. It was quite a shock to hear he passed away.

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  2. Sorry to hear about your friend Steve - with an endorsement like that from you there is no doubt in my mind he was a great guy - you never know whats on the other side though, whatever it is I doubt he wants to come back.

    peace.

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  3. Geez, Steve. You never like anyone. He must have truly been an awesome guy. I'm sorry for your loss.

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  4. Wow, I just found out about this today. I used to work with him around 8-9 years ago...This is a shame, he was so fun to be around. Such a high energy, nice guy. Even after only knowing him for a few short months, he's someone I'll never forget.

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